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EARLY MARRIAGE?? | KAHWIN AWAL??

nak kata typical Malaysian mmg akan membangkang idealogi ni..tak jugak..sebab ade je yg sokong..
so..how about you??

if someone come and ask me for my opinion for such question..definitely I'll say and tell them..that i'm gonna agree 120% for the idea..

look..

nowadays, there's a lot of cases happened among the teenagers..

abandoned of babies,sex,drugs,crimes,gangsterism
all of these cases seems to be a very normal situation in our community..

why??

there's a lot of reasons that can bring them there

so, what does the early marriage contribute to??

for me..

the early marriage can educate someone to be a better person..being good to others, try to be more independent, get their own goals in life
they can see the real world..how does it look like..

eventhough the reality is more difficult than the real idea..but we still can try for some sake of goodness..

btw, this idea is not valid for the 'REALLY EARLY MARRIAGE'..which means, get married at the age of 14 or 15..
no..this is not..
this idea is supposedly meant to the teenagers around 17-23 yrs old

most of you, out there is thinking about the nafkah right??..bet me you're not..

liar!!

yessss..this is the main issue of this idea

lets do some reflections..

1st-for those who are not further their studies, then they can find a job..(keje pam minyak pon okay..asalkan halal)

2nd-for those who are further their studies, they do have the sponsor or scholar or PT(ptptipu..ahahaha), then they can use some of that amount to give his wife the nafkah

am I right??

again..yes..the idea seems very good then the reality..but we can still put a try on it..
'bersusah-susah dahulu, bersenang-senang kemudian'..that's the key of success..

and yes..of course..for the Muslims..our doa' is our weapon..so..keep on reciting our doa'
and for the non-Muslims..they do have their own believes

so..in conclusion..I think..the idea is not that bad..but the people make it slightly complicated..

the idea can really train us,educate us to be a better person..
maybe, it will take years for someone to change..but it is still a good effort..to change someone is like to change the direction of a ship..is that easy??..definitely it is not..

I leave this post with a simpulan bahasa 'mahu seribu daya, tak mahu seribu dalih'

that's all for now..tataaa =)

Akademi Fantasia 2013

yess..it is true..akademi fantasia is one of the most popular reality tv show..but, my question is..
where/what is the quality of the program??

I might say none..if it is compared to the other reality tv show in the world..

I guess..for the first few years of akademi fantasia it is still okayy..but for the rest..it is totally not okay..

this is juz my opinion..
okay..for those who might get angry with this point of view..lets make a good comparison..shall we??

the above video is an auditions..

okay..lets begin..

1st-look at the crowd
2nd-look at the judges,who are they??
3rd-how does the audition sounds like??

I bet you..if you could find one of the akademi fantasia contestant singing that good..
again..I might say none..
only few of them have the potentials,like Iman,Darren,Indah and the sarawakian(if im not mistaken) twin..only they..they own the night..the night of the FIRST OPENING CONCERT..not at the audition bro!!

in my opinion..I think..all of the reality tv shows in Malaysia..is not worth-it..
lets recap some of the moments..
Mentor..we only have Black,Fiq
AF..we only have Aizat,Hafiz,Mawi,Amir Jahari,Adira,Mila
MyStarzLG??..errr
Vokal Bukan Sekadar Rupa..Asmidar
OIAM..Faizal Tahir,Aweera,Suki
MI..Jac

this post is not to hesitate someone or some kind of that feeling..this is juz an idea..an opinion..to improve/transform our reality tv shows in Malaysia..

no hard feelings..this is juz a sharing..
enjoy your food..and live your life..

HATi

ahahhaha..

first of all..assalam for all muslim and selamat sejahtera kpd yg lain..

based on the topic..miahahhahaha..speaking pulok dahhh..hmm..
topik nie agak cliche..ramai je putus cinta,baru bercinta,intai intai,usha usha..tp tak semudah itu utk menjaga hati..

bila hati dah hancur..tak sape mampu cantum kan semula..selalu dgr..menyintai,menyukai tak semestinya memiliki..I agree with that point..once broken,considered sold..hehee (mcm kat kedai barang barang kaca)..
mmg lumrah manusia..asal dari mana pun seseorg itu..perasaan sebegini pasti ade..

tp perlulah kita ingt..memaafkan adalah lebih baik drpd memarahi..sentiasa berfikiran positif..kalau org putih..dieorg selalu ckp..life must go on..so..keep on moving..kalau dilayan masalah..sampai mati masalah takkan habis..kan??

listen listen listen,animal also got problem..ahahahhaa..

apabila hati diguris,perasaan dipermain,kehadiran tidak diendahkan..mulalah wujud rasa yang tak sepatutnya wujud..maka,carilah point yang mampu membuat anda tenang..dgr musik yg menepati minat anda,tidur,makan,maen game,amek gambar ke..tp..for those yg muslim..pegi laa berwudhu'(itu lebih afdal)

satu lagi..typical malaysian..mrk jarang menghargai papa yg ade depan mata dieorg..imiginasi terlalu tinggi agaknya..selalu membayangkan yg lebih indah..sedangkan apa yg dah indah dan cantik..tp..tulahhh..susah nk ckp..so..pihak yg diabaikan tuu yg sakit..

this is juz my opinions laa..kalau korg rasa lain dari ape yg tertulis..maaf lah ye..sekian

okayy..since my last post few months ago..so..im gonna say sori..for those ade yg bukak dan lihat masih post sama..dan kpd spe yg ade rasa "ek eleh,tak update pun","pemalas nk tulis","normal laa,awal je semangat post"..semua tuu salah..

I juz finished my first sem,first year in uniten..so..ini baru ade peluang nk update..selain kelab dan pelbagai aktiviti..maaf ye(mcm ade follower je..hehee)

u only live once..hence,if life gives u lemon..juz try to make lemonade =)







nice song,nice cover btw :)

Selesai Ramadan

Alhamdulillah..selesai sudah sebulan berpuasa..harap harap..semoga apa ibadah dan aktiviti yg kita lakukan sepanjang ramadan yg lepas..diterima-NYA..

Bknlah kuantiti yg menjadi ukuran..bkn juga seberapa besar jumlah diambil kira..namun adalah isi dan cara pengisian aktiviti itu sendiri..

Syukur..walaupun tidak banyak..tetapi ade lah sedikit sebanyak sy menyertai aktiviti-aktiviti pemberian sumbangan kpd asnaf,fakir,yatim dan golongan lain yg lebih memerlukan..namun begitu..aktivit masjid juga tidak d lepaskan..iftar bersama,terawih bersama,qiyam bersama..alhamdulillah..

Ape yg menjadi tunjang ketika bln ramadan adalah iman..berbekalkn iman yg d pupuk d bln bln sebelum ramadan..maka ia menjd pendidik yg bagus ketika ramadan kelak..

Dan ape yg perlu kita lakukan adalah mengekalkan akhlak ramadan pd bln bln lain..insyaALLAH..

Ketika beraya..ingt..jgn terlalu berlebih..sekadar menyambut kemenangan dan lebihkan selawat dan pujian kepada nabi Muhammad dan ALLAH yg esa..

Ini adalah antara gambar yg sempat d ambil..dan utk pengetahuan pembaca dan bloggers lain..gambar sy kurang d rakam kan kerana cameraman utk setiap majlis itu adalah sy..

Sekian utk kali ini..hv a nice holiday and a safe journey..

-xoxo-

TANDAS jadi tempat makan??!!

Hal ini semakin meruncing..semakin serius..semakin besar..oleh itu, suka saya untuk memberi maklumat sebenar tentang hal ini kepada umum..kerana hal ini melibatkan family kawan saya..di dalam masa yang sama dapat saya membantu memulihkan imej keluarga beliau..

untuk maklumat itu..silalah kesini http://tinyurl.com/m2nfk5p

jangan terlalu cepat memberi hukuman dan teguran..nilai dari sudut berbeza..ambil kira semua pandangan..baru wujud konsep tulus..terima kasih

-xoxo-

::attitude::attitude::attitude::

hi guys!!

how are you??..having a good time with le family??..i guess yesss..
this post is actually about the attitude of us during this ramadan..and purposely directed for those yg mmg terkena =D

first thing first aurat dan solat..plz guys..do alert with these two things..bukan kau je kurang pahal poser dan tertambah dosa..kau siap ajak org lain join league kau skali..mmg betol..kita tak perlu laa tgk bende bende tak baik mcm nie..tp cuba bayangkan..sewaktu berhenti d traffic light..dan seorg wanita melintas dgn gaya dan jayanya..tanpa bertudung,berseluar ketat dan lagi bonus bila dia pakai baju ala ala singlet gituu..haa..kelas kau jahhh..

secondly..kalau bole..takyah laa post or tweet ape ape pasai makanan jai..perghhh..lu buat semua org terliur je..ahahahaa..

third..takpayah laa buat 'job' yg bukan bukan..kalau bole yg nie..bkn time poser je..time bila bila pown..yela..kn tak bgus..'job' nie kadang kadang tak semestinya yg grand grand je..tibai penutup tiub tayar kete pown dah kira 'job' laa tuu..inikan lagi yg grand grand tuu..lg laa tak baik..

forth..kurangkan menipu..menipu nie takdenye istilah tipu sunat ke ape ke..tipu tetap tipu..k??..bare in mind!!

fifth..jgn laa menyulam benang benang dosa tuu..mengumpat mengutuk..dan seangkatan dgn nya..mmg tak baik..k??

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Harapan Ramadhan - Raihan feat. Man Bai