EARLY MARRIAGE?? | KAHWIN AWAL??
nak kata typical Malaysian mmg akan membangkang idealogi ni..tak jugak..sebab ade je yg sokong..
so..how about you??
if someone come and ask me for my opinion for such question..definitely I'll say and tell them..that i'm gonna agree 120% for the idea..
look..
nowadays, there's a lot of cases happened among the teenagers..
abandoned of babies,sex,drugs,crimes,gangsterism
all of these cases seems to be a very normal situation in our community..
why??
there's a lot of reasons that can bring them there
so, what does the early marriage contribute to??
for me..
the early marriage can educate someone to be a better person..being good to others, try to be more independent, get their own goals in life
they can see the real world..how does it look like..
eventhough the reality is more difficult than the real idea..but we still can try for some sake of goodness..
btw, this idea is not valid for the 'REALLY EARLY MARRIAGE'..which means, get married at the age of 14 or 15..
no..this is not..
this idea is supposedly meant to the teenagers around 17-23 yrs old
most of you, out there is thinking about the nafkah right??..bet me you're not..
liar!!
yessss..this is the main issue of this idea
lets do some reflections..
1st-for those who are not further their studies, then they can find a job..(keje pam minyak pon okay..asalkan halal)
2nd-for those who are further their studies, they do have the sponsor or scholar or PT(ptptipu..ahahaha), then they can use some of that amount to give his wife the nafkah
am I right??
again..yes..the idea seems very good then the reality..but we can still put a try on it..
'bersusah-susah dahulu, bersenang-senang kemudian'..that's the key of success..
and yes..of course..for the Muslims..our doa' is our weapon..so..keep on reciting our doa'
and for the non-Muslims..they do have their own believes
so..in conclusion..I think..the idea is not that bad..but the people make it slightly complicated..
the idea can really train us,educate us to be a better person..
maybe, it will take years for someone to change..but it is still a good effort..to change someone is like to change the direction of a ship..is that easy??..definitely it is not..
I leave this post with a simpulan bahasa 'mahu seribu daya, tak mahu seribu dalih'
that's all for now..tataaa =)
nak kata typical Malaysian mmg akan membangkang idealogi ni..tak jugak..sebab ade je yg sokong..
so..how about you??
if someone come and ask me for my opinion for such question..definitely I'll say and tell them..that i'm gonna agree 120% for the idea..
look..
nowadays, there's a lot of cases happened among the teenagers..
abandoned of babies,sex,drugs,crimes,gangsterism
all of these cases seems to be a very normal situation in our community..
why??
there's a lot of reasons that can bring them there
so, what does the early marriage contribute to??
for me..
the early marriage can educate someone to be a better person..being good to others, try to be more independent, get their own goals in life
they can see the real world..how does it look like..
eventhough the reality is more difficult than the real idea..but we still can try for some sake of goodness..
btw, this idea is not valid for the 'REALLY EARLY MARRIAGE'..which means, get married at the age of 14 or 15..
no..this is not..
this idea is supposedly meant to the teenagers around 17-23 yrs old
most of you, out there is thinking about the nafkah right??..bet me you're not..
liar!!
yessss..this is the main issue of this idea
lets do some reflections..
1st-for those who are not further their studies, then they can find a job..(keje pam minyak pon okay..asalkan halal)
2nd-for those who are further their studies, they do have the sponsor or scholar or PT(ptptipu..ahahaha), then they can use some of that amount to give his wife the nafkah
am I right??
again..yes..the idea seems very good then the reality..but we can still put a try on it..
'bersusah-susah dahulu, bersenang-senang kemudian'..that's the key of success..
and yes..of course..for the Muslims..our doa' is our weapon..so..keep on reciting our doa'
and for the non-Muslims..they do have their own believes
so..in conclusion..I think..the idea is not that bad..but the people make it slightly complicated..
the idea can really train us,educate us to be a better person..
maybe, it will take years for someone to change..but it is still a good effort..to change someone is like to change the direction of a ship..is that easy??..definitely it is not..
I leave this post with a simpulan bahasa 'mahu seribu daya, tak mahu seribu dalih'
that's all for now..tataaa =)
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